the tacit conversation of a committed woman and a pessimist guy

the thought process of a committed, dedicated woman and a pessimist, depressing guy.
Both of them think that the other can't understand the way they think.
The less fortunate always philosophizes that if you are committed, does it disable him to fall in love with someone other than his beloved. He thinks that even if he was committed, he would have fallen in love with any women he met. So he sympathizes with the lady for being under pressure. He feels dwarfed by the people around himself. Most of them look good people, have equal number of difficulties in their life, even then they are happy, helpful and friendly. Just because they have found somebody they love and their love is equally reciprocated doesn't mean that they should be hated by someone undeserving like him.
On the other hand, committed one thinks that she is as vulnerable to fall in love with another person, as anybody else. Just because she is committed doesn't make her incapable for compassion and attraction to people. It is just that she can't vent out her feelings, unless it is so strong. At least her love is reciprocated. She sympathizes with the guy and feels sorry for not being able to tell him so.
Its like when your team-mate is taking the penalty in a critical soccer match, you pity him that there is so much pressure on him. But even you, other team mates, the audiences , everybody is in equally distressed environment. And to realize that you need to be on both the sides, at least once.